Uncertainty – Aligning Yourself With Ease
Uncertainty shows up often when we want to transform the current paradigm. We try to avoid the uncertainty by keeping everything under control.The Imposter Syndrome
Do you ever feel like an imposter? I meet many entrepreneurs who have fears and insecurities as they build their empires, price their services, and get behind their marketing and strategy.The Toxic People In Your Life
There are 4 types of people that could (and probably do) impact your life in a negative way and stop it from achieving the great potential that your life has. In the article below we will look at which the 4 types of toxic people are so that you can identify them easily and learn how to deal with them.The 5 Secrets Every Stylish Mature Woman Knows (And You Should Too!)
This article explores the secret style rules of mature stylish women. it explains each secret and explains how the reader can be more stylish too.What’s Stopping You From Dreaming Big
This was taken right around the time that my big dream to move to California was born. This was on a family trip to Disneyland & Universal Studios in California when I was 8 years old. At the time I was reading the Sweet Valley High books – remember those?Emotions As Weather
Although most people in the country wouldn’t agree, we in Southern California have been having extreme weather conditions for us: rain and mudslides. You could almost say we’re so used to mild conditions that we become afraid of what others would call “real” weather-weather wimps. Being afraid, ashamed of, or embarrassed by your feelings is like being afraid of the weather, because emotions (tears, panic attacks, angry outbursts, withdrawal, depression, elation, lust, romantic excitement, euphoria) are the weather conditions of the inner self.Are You Too Serious?
When I used to lead a drop-in therapy group, one night we had a very fun evening. Everyone had important triumphs to report, energy was high, we were laughing and joking. One petite woman who was there for the first time sat quietly, taking in all our humor and flip remarks.The Parable of the Penny
The is a story about reflecting on your past life? Is it to late to still dream?Turnaround Time
Solstice is the day near year end when the sun is furthest away from the Earth, and immediately begins to come closer again. Solstice marks a celestial turning point, and it’s no coincidence that we celebrate the end of the old year, and begin a new year of birth and renewal at this time. It’s a time of new beginnings, of letting go of the old and generating the new.What’s the Use: Overcoming Self-Defeating Thoughts
The toughest issue I have to overcome in helping some clients get past their blocks and move forward in life is an attitude of “what’s the use” or “I’m not worth it.” Some children who are emotionally or mentally abused come to believe that they’re not valuable as people.This makes it very difficult for them to have enough hope or motivation to work through the blocks and heal.Changing The Direction Of Your Destiny
In our previous article; You Control Your Destiny, and the article before that; Seven Fences That Bind And Separate Us, we spoke about the limitations and negative qualities we need to overcome in order to simply be a better person, and have a better life. This article will continue in that theme with the next step of the process; what to become after, and while in the process, of removing the negative qualities.A Good Cry
At the end of a client-packed day, the trash can in my office is often overflowing with used tissues. Richard, seeing this, usually comments; “Good day, huh?” and we both laugh.