Do You STRIVE For Personal Best?
There is so much discussion these days about personal development, growth, positive attitudes and our focus/ priorities. However, we often end up observing that a large number of individuals who attend self – help/ personal development seminars, revert to their personal negativities and problem – oriented philosophies and mindsets. When that occurs, individuals end up resorting to taking the path of least resistance rather than aiming for the fullest amount of quality and dedication possible.The Back Door of Excuses
Throughout my years as a counsellor, therapist coach and now as an energy healer, I’ve discovered that no matter how hard some people work to improve their lives, no matter how much they have accomplished, or how good they feel about themselves, there is almost always one area of their lives where they feel powerless to create the next level of success. We usually have a perfectly good reason worked out why that next level of success evades us.Why Is an Abuse Victim Denied Intimacy?
This article first provides the many definitions of “intimacy.” It then explores the reasons why abuse victims are unable to partake of it.The ME, Or The OUR Mindset?
There have been volumes written and discussed about what is often referred to as the Me generation, yet it appears that this mindset and approach is far from limited to one specific generation or age group, but is far more widespread and/ or pervasive. As we look around us, we seem to observe an ever – increasing number of narcissistic individuals, who consider only themselves, often at the expense or neglect of others, and of the overall society. In reality, there are generally two possible alternatives for the way that we focus and proceed, either from the mindset of ME…How Online Dating Taught Me Self-Approval
Find yourself always waiting for the approval of others? Ready to give yourself the approval you seek? Learn how online dating taught me to approve of myself.Why Is It Impossible to Please Everybody?
Lot of people are being denied any attention and serious consideration because they are deemed as ‘different’ by people who live in a routine world set straight by their forefathers and the society. It takes courage to be different and unique which normal people don’t really subscribe to.How To Handle a Surprise Divorce
Not everyone going through a divorce wants one! Those of us who never expected to be confronted with divorce papers are often blindsided. The result is that we make a lot of mistakes. Obviously our spouse has been thinking about and planning for divorce while we have been planning for a future together. There are three mistakes that one makes when served with an unexpected, unsolicited divorce. First, she goes through the divorce in a haze. Secondly, he gets bad advice. Thirdly, he agrees to too much in the divorce agreement just to get it all behind him. All of these things have long-lasting, dire consequences for many years to come. In the end she discovers that it will never be completely behind her!A Reflection of Myself: A Short Conversation About Physical Appearance
Physical appearance can cause us to be less secure about the way we are in the world. I share my own experiences about the appearances of getting older and how that affects my happiness.DeJa Vu or View?
And so it is with mankind; our choices and the foundation of our beliefs are built upon the things we believe to be true. If we can’t see it, we can’t believe it. We build science fiction stories about time machines and create all kinds of complicated scenarios about time travel, many arriving at the conclusion that the people who believe in these stories are loons; conditioned by stories like the ‘Twilight Zone,’ or articles written by others whose only perception is based on what they believe in. We refuse to accept that there is a simple method of time travel available to every human being; one that we brought with us into our life fully equipped to use.DeJa Vu or View?
And so it is with mankind; our choices and the foundation of our beliefs are built upon the things we believe to be true. If we can’t see it, we can’t believe it. We build science fiction stories about time machines and create all kinds of complicated scenarios about time travel, many arriving at the conclusion that the people who believe in these stories are loons; conditioned by stories like the ‘Twilight Zone,’ or articles written by others whose only perception is based on what they believe in. We refuse to accept that there is a simple method of time travel available to every human being; one that we brought with us into our life fully equipped to use.Write Down The Vision
Do you know what I’ve been working on? Getting my life right!How Do You LIVE Your Life?
Most of us consistently determine our destiny based on some combinations of our actions (or avoidance of action), dominant and prevailing attitude (positive, negative or neutral), and most essentially, how we decide to LIVE our life. At best, we are behaving in a disingenuous manner when we attempt to casually stroll through our everyday activities, rather than creating, developing and implementing some sort of plan that promotes and advances our goals, visions and dreams. However, many individuals are confronted with a huge disconnect in their everyday lives because their actions, attitudes, and inner desires or hopes are consistently and continuosuly…