What Causes the Divided Self?
This article explores the reasons behind the divided self. It discusses the dichotomous dilemma of an abuse survivor.The Sky Is Empty
Probably the very worst part of losing one’s way on the pathway of their life journey is the sinking feeling of hopelessness and helplessness. Many times people who have been in this situation relate how sure they had become that God did not exist; that no one, no one at all, cared about them or their very existence. How easy it would be to feel hopeless if one believed that. Those who are caught up in these emotions believe they have never been farther from God than when they felt so utterly hopeless and helpless. And yet, they were probably closer to God at that time than ever before.Being Successful: Lifelong Learner
Becoming and maintaining your definition of success requires a level of being a lifelong learning. Continuous learning will give you so many more positive things than just more information. Keep reading to find out what.3 Ways To Make Peace With Yourself
Neither you nor I can un-happen what has happened. These steps are meant to help make peace with yourself. These include avoid playing the ‘coulda, shoulda, woulda’ game, and having a meditation practice so you may live a healthier, more productive and peaceful life.It’s Your Responsibility To Take Care of YOU!
One of the six basic human needs is to feel significant. That is, the need to feel special and worthy of attention. For some reason many people feel that it is other people’s responsibility to fill this need. BIG PROBLEM! No one can make you feel significant or insignificant – only you can? So, what are you going to do about it?3 Principles of Self-Love
The level of your Self-Love affects every aspect of your life – from relationships, your career, how much money you make, how peaceful and joyful you feel, and how people see you. Learn 3 principles to help guide you towards loving yourself and enhancing your life.How To Nurture A Constant Flow Of Enthusiasm
When was the last time that you went to a party and watched someone walk into the room to bring in a fresh aura of enthusiasm and cheerfulness? The new visitor seemed to be having an electrifying presence, captivating those in the room with his or her personality, body language and overall charisma. It is not rare to meet people like these who do not seem to have a thread of worry in their heads of lives. They seem not to walk but glide in and out of our lives, leaving us happy, content and energized.How to Build Strong and Effective Leadership Skills
A good leadership style is often difficult to define as it is more qualitative than quantitative. Some say that a good leader gets the job done, while others argue that a good leader simply inspires and motivates his team. In other words, a good leader gets the work done by inspiring others and he does so, because not only does he know the best method of doing the job, but he helps the doer to look at the bigger canvas. He shows him the path of progress, of independence and the route to success. To put it simply a good leader knows how to get the best out of his team. He has a vision which he constantly shares with his people.Freedom From Fear Forever
Fear is perhaps one of the most chronic and debilitating ailments that is affecting people today. This self-made hell where most people live in is crippling relationships and careers, damaging homes and organizations and creating unparallel harm in personal and professional growth to millions round the world. What is this all-consuming fear about and where does it originate from? Incredible as it may sound people suffer from several types of fears and continue to live in their private prisons for a number of varied reasons: fear of rejection, fear of the unknown, fear of change, fear of making decisions, fear of confrontation, fear of loss, fear of failure and even fear of success thinking that they are not equipped enough to handle it! This paralyzing phenomenon often results in worry, tension, stress, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem and many more debilitating conditions. Left unattended, fear can throw anyone in a bottomless pit of self-pity and dejection. Sometimes it takes a life time to come out of this hellish condition.Every Failure Is An Opportunity In Disguise
As much as we would all love to live an easy life with endless resources and finances, most people might admit that life would be pretty monotonous if there were no obstacles or failures. Evidence of this might be seen by watching the celebrity gossip television programs, where the rich and famous of Hollywood seem to bounce from one crisis to another, seemingly bored of living the good life. How many times have you watch such stories in the news, and thought what you would do to benefit humanity if you could have their vast resources of wealth, power and influence. How many times have you been puzzled when trying to understand their mindset?Find A Mentor, Be a Mentor
A mentor is someone who is your friend, philosopher and guide in matters related to your career, personal growth and development as well as your personal life. He or she counsels and advises you not only when you are in a crisis situation but also when you are crossroads of life – be it any situation. The person is experienced in matters of life and career and talks with authority. He is dependable and could be with you from the start to the end of your career. The corollary to your understanding could be: What is in it for him? A mentor can gain tremendously in his own life, as he holds the hand of someone who needs his help. We believe that there is no better tool in life which helps you in your personal growth than to be coach to someone. If you look at this opportunity from the mentors’ perspective, you not only feel proud of the fact that you are helping someone to reach his own latent potential, but have a great sense of enhanced self-esteem when you see people depend on you for advice and guidance.Why Not Create a Life You Love Instead of Blaming Everyone Else for Where You Are in Life?
Many of us spend a good portion of our lives caught in what I refer to as a “victim mentality” only because we just don’t realize we’re doing it. If you think you might be a part of this mentality and would really like to get out of it and into something much more positive and productive, I invite you to have a look at this article. It might be just what you need to make a significant, positive life change.